There Is No Easy Button

It seems a lot of people are looking for the easy button for their lives. They want to hit a button and have their lives instantly fulfilled overnight. I hate to break it to you but there is no easy button to achieve greatness in anything. To get where you want to go it’s going to take work. Serious hard work. I think Americans see musicians and actors all of the sudden pop up out of nowhere and become famous and wealthy. They think that it can be done instantly. What we don’t see is the years of hard work that got them to that tipping point that they broke over. All achievers put in hard work into getting there. There was some magical chant or potion that made them that way, they simply put in the time to get where they wanted to go.

Dan Kennedy has a great quote: “I’m an overnight success after 20 years.”

If it took you 5 years to achieve all of your dreams would it be worth it to dedicate that time? Of course! There is another saying I live by: “I will dedicate the next few years of my life towards achieving my goals so that while others have to work to survive, if I choose to I can be permanently lazy.” If you want to be successful in anything, put in the time. Make the dedication. As with most things in life, you get what you put in. Put in the work and time, you’ll get there. Don’t put in the time, you won’t get much in return.

 

Americas Got Crabs

Heard an interesting fact about crabs the other day by my buddy Brian Bellville. Apparently, its hard to catch a speedy crab but easy to keep track of them once you have them because of their instinct to “pull each other down.” Once you have at least two crabs, you just put them in a box. A crab by itself could easily just climb out, but if there is another crab there, he will reach up with his claw and pull the first crab back down before he can get over the edge. They don’t help each other in their frantic escape to regain their freedom. They do the complete opposite. It’s as if they can’t tolerate another crab escaping or rising above their level without them. So these crabs keep pulling each other down and none of them escape their captivity and get where they want to go.

Sadly this happens with people too. It seems that it is part of human nature to envy those who get ahead of us. Many people try to pull others down either through sabotage or verbal criticism. It’s unfortunate that this happens because it keeps weaker minds from pushing further. I believe that we should do the opposite of what crabs do. Instead of attempting to hold another back, why not lift them up? Give praise instead of criticism. We should support each other’s efforts. Personally, I enjoy seeing someone succeed, even if it’s faster than myself. It often encourages me to do better. There is a great quote I read the other day:

“Where you see valid achievements or virtue being attacked, it’s by someone viewing them as a mirror of their own inadequacy instead of an inspiring beacon for excellence.” — Vanna Bonta

Many people out there are like the crab. They attempt to hold others back because of their own mediocrity. Why should we look at others success as negative? Why pull another down for achieving something great? If someone is succeeding, that person has a chance to better the world in some way! We should look at their example as inspiration to better ourselves rather than an excuse to criticize for our own inadequacies.

 

Entrepreneurs: Remember Who You Are.

“All your life, you have heard yourself denounced, not for your faults, but for your greatest virtues. You have been hated, not for your mistakes, but for your achievements. You have been scorned for all those qualities of character which are your highest pride. You have been called selfish for the courage of acting on your own judgment and bearing sole responsibility for your own life. You have been called arrogant for your independent mind. You have been called cruel for your unyielding integrity. You have been called antisocial for the vision that made you venture upon undiscovered roads. You have been called ruthless for the strength and self-discipline of your drive to your purpose. You have been called greedy for the magnificence of your power to create wealth. You, who’ve expanded an inconceivable flow of energy, have been called a parasite. You, who’ve created abundance where there had been nothing but wastelands and helpless, starving men before you, have been called a robber. You, who’ve kept them all alive, have been called an exploiter. You, the purest and more moral man among them, have been sneered at as a ‘vulgar materialist.’ Have you stopped to ask them: by what right? – by what code? – by what standard? ” – A. R.

I am so sick of seeing the world of business demonized. It is everywhere out there. The constant punishment of our world’s greatest achievers. It’s on magazine covers and books, across newspaper headlines and reflected in hollywood. It’s disheartening.

Today I saw these words on Hugh Macleod’s Blog: Remember Who You Are. Those words stayed with me.

Remember Who You Are.

I want to remind you entrepreneurs who you are. We live in world today that does not appreciate us despite our great and important work. Instead of being praised for the value we bring, they choose to demonize and label us. Remember: you shouldn’t feel guilty for your strength. You should be proud of your creations and the value you bring to our world. You have done what many could not. Those that demonize us do so because they cannot accomplish what we can. They do not have our great strength so they attempt to save face by demonization. What you are doing is extremely worthwhile. It is people like you that move and push our world forward, not them. We may never get a thank you from them for providing them with great products, services and jobs. Its alright becuase we don’t need it. We don’t need their approval, we only need our own. Remember, it is you who is making a difference in our world. No matter what they say about us, just remember who you are and that you are doing great work.

“Pay no attention to what the critics say. A statue has never been erected in honor of a critic.” – Jean Sibelius

Remember Who You Are.

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Quickie: Create The Disease

Brillant. I heard an older marketer once say “If you want to be successful in marketing, create the disease.” In other words hit them in their desires and fears. This is a great example. Before I saw this box, I thought my pens were perfectly fine. Now, since I don’t have this specially formulated glop inside my pens, they might cause check fraud. Guess I better upgrade…

WHO talked me into this thing anyway??

Ever play the blame game?  Did you win? hahahaha… I would argue to always blame yourself and you really can win EVERY time…

It’s called taking responsibility – placing blame never helped anyone do anything!  EVER… Is life fair?  Do bad things happen to good people?  Do businesses fail?  Do stocks go up and down at the wrong times!! ??   YES… Why fight it…. the only answer out there for you is summed up here: DO YOUR BEST all the time!  ALL THE TIME.

I heard a great story over 13 years ago and I will never forget it….

The speaker is asking a crowd about running a 6 minute mile and who can do it… only a few raise their hands and the rest – sweat – just thinking about it…

Speaker continues and asks the crowd about running a 6 minute mile with a reward of $1,000,000 and almost everyone raises their hands because they want that $1,000,000 reward for running a simple 6 minute mile.

Speaker narrates the start of the run and how it’s so easy!!!  I mean – $1,000,000 — you can pay off all your bills, house, car – get a boat… etc… WOW – $1,000,000 !!!!!!  WooooHoooo!!!!

Speaker narrates the 2nd lap and it’s starting to wear on ya… I mean…. you haven’t done this in a while… or ever… hahahaha… Whew… BUT $1,000,000!!!!  WOOOOOHOOOOOOO!!!!  I am gonna get what I always wanted — I am gonna tour around Europe…. I am gonna be a ROCK star!!!

Speaker narrates the end of the 3rd lap – start of the 4th lap…. WOW… your lungs are on fire… your legs are part of the jello family… you are starting to get sick… and your hands go up in the air halfway around the last lap and you say out loud!!!  $1,000,000!!!!! ….. WHO NEEDS IT?????   WHO TALKED ME INTO THIS THING ANYWAY?? I mean – you were happy before without a lot of money…. Macy’s can wait to get paid… Your house is still there…. RIGHT???

CRAZY right??? Does this mentality fit into your life or someone’s life that you know?  ………… The truth is… you never had the $1,000,000 to begin with… it’s not like you won the Superbowl ring and then someone took it away… YOU never had it to lose… It’s EASY to throw in the towel when you haven’t accomplished something first…it’s just like all your goals and dreams… all your life… you have let them slip away because they weren’t tangible…. weren’t real enough…. the reward wasn’t real enough or BIG enough…

Now… here is something to think about…. what if it was your family on the line? What if you HAD to perform in order to save them?  Is that a big enough WHY?  A big enough REWARD?  The truth is —- that’s happening every day out there.  People are living lives of quiet desperation and literally can’t see their way out of it.  Isn’t it time to make some changes?  Inspire others to do something more!!??  It’s inside all of us to have massive success… We just have to get OUT of our OWN way long enough to let it happen!

Do You Merely Exist?

YOU SHOULD NEVER MERELY EXIST IN OUR WORLD. The truth is that many do just that. They go by day to day simply existing and never attempting their true potential. Why shouldn’t you live the life you want? Why not go big? Why sit around and simply talk or dream about what you want? Simply existing in our world is a disservice to yourself and the world. What is the point in just existing? Living to live? Do something of significance. Live large. Dive head first and go for it. Too many people forget to HAVE LIFE AFTER BIRTH and just try to get by. Live a life of significance and purpose. Let the world see what you are made of. Attack your dreams and passions head on with such vigor and virility that nothing can shake your mission to succeed. Make it apart of your constitution. If you expect large things for yourself, have a high estimate of yourself, and demand what you want with never faltering will, you can achieve whatever you want.

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There is no I in team

Sometimes it’s hard to see the forest through the trees or the golf club through the driver…. Know what I mean?  If not… I will explain later…. Teamwork is extremely important in life and in business.  DON’T LOSE FOCUS for one second. What is your experience with this issue?  Does your team carry their individual weight?  Do you?  It’s a fair question isn’t it?  Aren’t partnerships supposed to be questioned from time to time?  I always heard a good deal is when both sides do what they promised and both lose something of extreme value? Did you put in something of value?  Did you want something for nothing?  Did they?  It’s all a series of questions that must be answered internally… Just something to think about and ponder…. comment?

This is a great video mash to use with anyone and hit home The Difference between Talent and Skill. It’s only 10 minutes and well worth the view!!
Your words and thoughts have physical power. In life many people wonder why things don’t always go the way they want them to but do not realize that in every thought they think and words they speak—— LIFE changes for those people… in the manner in which they choose…. whether they realize it or not…

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Say goodbye…

Do you know anyone in your life that you would JUST LOVE to give this card to?  It’s straight to the point, it’s funny, it’s also very courteous – it says so at the bottom of the card and you could implement this very quickly in any situation.  Couldn’t you?

I mean – couldn’t you?  There are people in your life that will literally suck you dry.  Battery drainers, dream stealers, toxics, etc.  We all know them…. The question is…. why don’t we get rid of them?  I know that sounds harsh… but… they are KILLING YOU… What you put into your mind comes out in real life —- if you are feeding it garbage – you will become the proverbial garbage dump of problems and issues that you are constantly taking into your brain.  Isn’t your mind the most powerful computer out there?  (At least until 2013 – what the scientists are saying).  If you are running that computer with bad data…. you will only continue to get the BLUE screen or you will always be trying to prevent a crash.

SAY GOODBYE — it could be a family member, best friend, acquaintance, etc.  I am not saying you stop loving them or caring about them.  I am saying to drop their load off your already tired and aching back… TO GET ON with your life and GET CRACKING on YOUR DREAMS!!  The time is now – it’s 2010 – new decade – new possibilities.

It’s hard to move forward while keeping your eyes in the past…

Isn’t it time to MOVE ahead and DO WHAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS DREAMED?  Say goodbye in order to say hello to a new you and a new future.  It’s bright if you allow yourself to see it.

Say goodbye and burn those bridges (in a nice way).  You can thank me later.  :)

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